If you feel that
the child is in immediate and severe physical danger, call Child Protective
Services and/or local law enforcement immediately.
What Is
Child Abuse? How Do I Recognize It?
Child abuse
includes physical abuse, physical neglect, sexual abuse and mental
(emotional) abuse of a child under 18 years of age by a parent or
other caretaker.
Physical
Abuse is a non-accidental injury to a child by a parent or caretaker.
You may see frequent and unexplained bruises, burns, cuts or other
injuries. The child may be overly afraid of the parent's reaction
to misbehavior.
Physical
Neglect is a parent's failure to give the child food, clothing,
hygiene, medical care, and/or supervision. You may see a very young
child routinely left alone at home or you may know that a severe
illness or injury is not being medically treated. A neighbor's child
may frequently turn up at your door - inadequately dressed for the
weather - saying his parent told him to stay away. Physical neglect
is hard to judge. . .sometimes what you see is simply poor judgment,
but not neglect. Sometimes what you see is the result of poverty,
not parental neglect.
Sexual Abuse
ranges from non-touching offenses, such as exhibitionism, to fondling,
intercourse or using the child for pornographic materials. You may
see sexual behavior way beyond what is expected for the child's
age. A young child might have sudden, unusual difficulty with toilet
habits or there may be pain or itching, bruises or bleeding in the
genital area. The child may not be able to tell you directly about
these problems.
Mental (Emotional)
Abuse includes severe rejection, humiliation and actions intended
to produce fear or extreme guilt in a child. You may see a parent
who verbally terrorizes the child, who continually and severely
criticizes the child, or who fails to express any affection or nurturing.
In short, an
abused or neglected child is one whose physical or psychological
health or development is seriously harmed by the behavior of a parent
or caretaker.
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How Can
I Decide Whether to Report the Abuse I Suspect?
Deciding whether
or not to report suspected child abuse can be difficult, yet it
is an important first step toward protecting a child who might be
in danger. You must have a reasonable suspicion of child abuse.
You do not have to be able to prove the abuse or be absolutely certain
that it occurred. You might be mistaken, but it is better to err
on the side of the child. Not reporting your suspicions may mean
that abuse will continue. If you make a report in good faith, you
are immune from civil or criminal liability.
Will the
Child Be Taken Away From the Home If I Report?
Only if the
child is at risk of serious harm will she or he be taken away from
the home. Removing the child from the home is not a routine or usual
occurrence. Even if the child must be removed, the goal is to keep
the family together.
What Happens
After I Report?
After receiving
a valid report, Child Protective Services (CPS) assesses the situation
to determine if there is immediate danger to the child. If caseworkers
find that maltreatment has occurred, or services are needed to prevent
abuse and neglect, CPS has a number of options. These include working
out a plan with the family - to protect the child and to help the
parents solve the problems which are leading to abuse or neglect.
Will My
Name Be Confidential? Do I Have To Give My Name?
Reports may
be made anonymously, but it helps a great deal if you give your
name. Giving your name will assure that the CPS worker who investigates
the case can contact you and that important information will not
be forgotten or lost.
Your name will
be kept confidential. CPS will not release identifying information
about the person who made the report to the family who was reported.
Usually the name of the person making the report will be made known
only if a court orders it or if court testimony is involved.
How Will
I Know What Happens?
You will receive
a letter of acknowledgement from CPS, but otherwise you may not
know, except by seeing changes in the child and family. CPS works
under strict confidentiality rules, for the protection of everybody
involved.
What Else
Can I Do If I Think That A Parent I Know Is Abusing Or Neglecting
A Child?
You can let
the parent know that you are concerned about her or him. Realize
the parent may be under stress, feeling lonely and isolated or inadequate
as a parent. Offer your support, or encourage the parent to seek
other help - perhaps a parenting class or support group.
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